Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life.“ When we come to this world, we know nothing. Then, we all become products of the societies that raised us and shaped our belief system with things labeled good or bad, right or wrong, normal or abnormal. And, then some of us live the rest of our lives fitting into those labels and making decisions so that we fit in and do not disappoint anyone. In reality, you can’t disappoint anyone. People disappoint themselves with the expectations they set for whom they want you to be, or what they want you to do. People with no agenda cannot get disappointed, nor can they get involved in drama. They accept and love you unconditionally, as you are. Today, begin to break free of all the expectations of other people and become a rebel, making yourself your own cause. Let go of your need to get others' approval. Stop wanting other people to give you the things that you are not giving yourself: love, time, care, approval and attention.You are the sum of your choices. Do whatever feels right for you. You don’t owe anyone any explanations for the way you choose to live your precious years. Your time is your life, and it’s never coming back. Today, mind your own journey and sing your own song. If it sounds like something you “should” do, don’t do it. Your needs matter. Don’t let anyone else write your story. Your life is about you, and you deserve to be happy. Today, be a rebel and break free so you can be truly YOU!
Just for today, I no longer use the word "should"-I release the need to make myself or anyone else wrong. I no longer judge or criticize myself. I am free to love who I am. I love myself exactly as I am. I no longer wait to be perfect. I am lovable. I am loving. I am loved and I am free to be me. And so it is.